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How To Fascinate Ladies - Mixed Responses And Flirting
When we are talking about the subject of "picking up women." I often be asked what to do in order to "pick up women", or simply "how to pick up women".
I recently got asked the doubt: "Why do girls flirt with you and when you flirt back they reject it? It's so confusing!!!" I thought it was interesting and important enough to share.
To begin with, women have different personalities. What is being pointed out here is a type of personality, not all girls in general. The personality type that usually does this kind of actions is a little insecure. They are testing the water, but they don't really want to jump in.
The best way to deal with this personality type is when you see it is not to respond, not to take the bait so to speak. Let the girl flirt all she desires, let her take the lead. Let her control how the association goes. If you don't react, she will get comfortable with you and steepen the gradient over time. If you react (flirt back) she will usually skip out.
Problem is, however, people with the same or compatible personalities tend to hang out together. So at times you can get the impression that the whole world is in one direction, when in fact it may be only a certain percentage of people who are like that. So if you tend to think ALL women are one way, alter your environment. Go somewhere different, meet different people in different circumstances and perhaps you will discover different personality types and probably one that is more compatible with you.
Now having said that, let's view it from a different angle. Women in general like flirting for flirting's sake more than men do. Men will flirt mainly because they are interested in a woman. Women will flirt to see if they get an acceptance, to see if they are looking good and are impressive, even when they are not interested in a man. They will flirt with a person they are only interested in being friends with.
One way to get better control of these conditions is to look at all the communication modes that a woman is using to communicate - Like by word of mouth, emotional, physical, mental, and sexual communications.
When a lady likes you she is likely to communicate that she likes you across all of the communications channels. When she is simply playing around she will give you conflicting communications. So when you realize a woman flirting with you, but she does not back up the flirting by showing you she likes you through ALL the communication channels - don't take the flirtation seriously.
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