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Are You Scared To Converse Or Meet Up With Women?
There is a simple thing that men may do to boost their confront on approaching women and meeting women.
Whenever you feel uncomfortable in any situation, it implies that you are approaching this circumstance on too high a gradient. Rather than runing away from the scenario, lower the gradient.
What exactly are gradients? Gradients are like steps on a ladder. If you try to go to the top level of the ladder on your initial step, it will be impossible to accomplish, and you may fail. If you continue to keep trying it over and over you will start building up a complex about faltering, and soon not make an effort anymore.
If you try to skip up five or six steps on your initial try, it will also be scary -- not necessarily unattainable but terrifying. And the probability is that if you have no experience jumping that high you will not be successful .
The best strategy is to take the first step and then advance one-step at a time. It is the most suitable route to climb a ladder.
When I was a young guy I would observe a lady I was attracted to and thought I had to tell her just how much I liked her right away. Well that was jumping up too many steps on the ladder. I knew nothing about her.
The first step is a straightforward "Hi" and a smile. Then keep walking. Get comfortable just saying "Hi" to young ladies. Then as step two when they say "Hi" back or ask you a question, answer the question, or make a comment about something which she has her attention on to continue the conversation. For instance, if you are in a bookstore and she is looking at a book on cooking, ask her what she thinks of that book. Is it any good?
Talks develop naturally. Do not push it. Familiarize yourself with her before you decide that you like her.
Of course, there is a whole lot more to it, however these are good basics to begin with. If you use gradients eventually you will learn how to meet women.
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